I attempt to ensure that I say hello and goodbye to each child and family member when they enter and exit the room. The messages I think my hellos send are that I see and acknowledge the child and family member. It can change someone’s mood and open the door for communication which can lead to helping us connect to one another at a more personal level. The message I think my goodbyes send are that until next time, we will keep in touch. The messages I believe the lack of my hellos and goodbyes send is that I am rude and don’t care for or about the parents or their kids.
When a kid cries a lot when his parents say good-bye I think that it is hard for the kid and that he may have separation anxiety. I also think that maybe something is bothering the child. His crying makes me feel a bit upset because I feel sorry that he is hurting but I understand that it is normal and will find ways to help his goodbyes go smoother. Yes, I feel differently about a child who never cries at drop-off time. It makes me feel good because it lets me know that the child is comfortable with me.
One reason some parents may leave without saying goodbye because they are running late for work. Another reason that parents may leave without saying goodbye because they care too much ad can’t handle seeing their kid crying. There is also the reason of not allowing their kid to persuade them to give in and take them back home with them. When the parents leave that way I feel like they may not be in a good mood. I think the children feel confused, upset, and maybe even hopeless.
At the end, I help parents reunite with their child by allowing the child to show them the art they created for them. I also tell the parents how their child’s day was and one or two helpful things that they did. When a child continues to play, a parent may be pleased to see her child having fun or disappointed that her child has not acknowledged her. When a kid cries, a parent may feel guilty.